Ser Ou Parecer

Dulce María's song 'Ser Ou Parecer' delves into the emotional turmoil and relentless pursuit of unrequited love. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of someone who is deeply infatuated with another person, yet struggles to capture their attention. The protagonist grapples with the idea of being or seeming to be the person their love interest imagines, highlighting the internal conflict between authenticity and the desire to be noticed. This theme is encapsulated in the repeated question, 'Ser o parecer quien te imaginas?' which translates to 'To be or to seem like who you imagine?' This line underscores the tension between self-identity and the longing for acceptance and love from another person.

Throughout the song, the protagonist makes numerous attempts to express their feelings, only to be met with silence or missed opportunities. The lyrics convey a sense of frustration and helplessness, as seen in lines like 'Mucho ya intenté por levantar la voz' ('I tried so hard to raise my voice') and 'Me congelé, los nervios me mataban' ('I froze, the nerves were killing me'). Despite these setbacks, the protagonist remains hopeful and determined, finding solace in their dreams where their love interest is always present, 'Como una luz que me ilumina' ('Like a light that illuminates me'). This metaphor of light symbolizes hope and guidance, suggesting that the protagonist's dreams provide a sense of direction and motivation to keep trying.

The song also touches on the pain of seeing the love interest with someone else, which intensifies the protagonist's feelings of inadequacy and longing. However, the recurring theme of persistence is evident as the protagonist vows to keep trying, regardless of the obstacles. The line 'Y no importan los días que pase o muera en el intento' ('And it doesn't matter how many days pass or if I die trying') encapsulates this unwavering determination. 'Ser Ou Parecer' is a poignant exploration of the complexities of unrequited love, the struggle for self-acceptance, and the enduring hope that one day, love will be reciprocated.