You're Not Harry Styles
DYLAN
Challenging Narcissism with a Pop Culture Twist
The song "You're Not Harry Styles" by DYLAN is a sharp commentary on a relationship with someone who has an inflated ego and a lack of genuine affection. The lyrics paint a picture of a partner who is self-centered and believes they are superior, possibly to the point of narcissism. The repeated comparisons to Harry Styles, a well-known symbol of charm and desirability, serve to highlight the partner's delusions of grandeur and the disparity between their self-perception and reality.
Throughout the song, the artist confronts the partner's arrogance and emotional neglect. The lines "You think you can do better" and "Cause you're not quite Harry Styles" suggest that the partner's self-importance is unfounded and that they are not as exceptional as they believe. The mention of a "God complex" further emphasizes the partner's inflated self-image. The artist also reflects on her own self-worth, recognizing that she may be overly emotional and replaceable in the eyes of her partner, but ultimately concludes that she deserves better than the treatment she's receiving.
The song's chorus, with its catchy repetition of "better," serves as both a question and a realization. It questions whether the partner's behavior truly makes them feel superior, while also affirming the artist's recognition that she deserves a better relationship. The song's narrative is a journey from being undermined to asserting one's value, and it resonates with anyone who has ever been in a relationship with a partner who failed to appreciate them.