Kid
Eddy de Pretto
Breaking the Chains of Toxic Masculinity: Eddy de Pretto's 'Kid'
Eddy de Pretto's song 'Kid' is a powerful critique of toxic masculinity and the societal pressures placed on young boys to conform to traditional male stereotypes. The lyrics are a poignant narrative from the perspective of a father or societal figure imposing rigid expectations on a young boy, demanding that he embody an exaggerated form of masculinity. The repeated phrase 'Tu seras viril, mon kid' (You will be virile, my kid) underscores the relentless pressure to adhere to these norms.
The song delves into the harmful effects of these expectations, such as the suppression of emotions ('Je ne veux voir aucune larme glisser sur cette gueule héroïque') and the rejection of anything perceived as feminine ('Je ne veux voir aucune once féminine'). The lyrics also highlight the absurdity and destructiveness of these demands, referring to them as 'virilité abusive' (abusive virility). This term encapsulates the toxic nature of these societal norms, which prioritize physical strength, dominance, and emotional suppression over genuine human connection and emotional well-being.
In the latter part of the song, Eddy de Pretto shifts the narrative to his own perspective, rejecting these toxic ideals. He emphasizes his own choices and identity, stating 'Mais moi, je joue avec les filles' (But me, I play with the girls) and 'je ne prône pas mon chibre' (I don't flaunt my manhood). This defiance against traditional masculinity serves as a call to break free from these oppressive norms and embrace a more inclusive and authentic sense of self. Through 'Kid,' Eddy de Pretto not only critiques the damaging effects of toxic masculinity but also advocates for a more compassionate and liberated approach to gender identity.