Búscate Un Hombre Que Te Quiera
El Arrebato
The Musician's Heartfelt Farewell
The song "Búscate Un Hombre Que Te Quiera" by El Arrebato is a poignant expression of self-awareness and sacrifice in love. The lyrics convey the story of a man who, despite his deep affection for his partner, recognizes that he cannot provide her with the stability and material comforts she deserves. He acknowledges that his life as a musician, with its inherent uncertainties and financial instability, is not suitable for someone he considers a princess.
The recurring theme of the song is the artist's struggle between his passion for music and the practical aspects of a relationship. The lyrics suggest that music is not just a career but an intrinsic part of his identity, something he refers to as the 'veneno de la música' (the poison of music) that he carries in his skin. This metaphor highlights the intoxicating and inescapable nature of his calling. He admits that he spends what little money he has on his passion, such as buying a new guitar, rather than on necessities like filling the fridge ('llenita la nevera').
The song's chorus, which advises the woman to find a man who can provide for her, is both a selfless act of letting go and a reflection of the singer's resignation to his fate. The mention of being 'flamenco' and that the street was his school further emphasizes his deep connection to his roots and the bohemian lifestyle that often accompanies artistic pursuits. The artist's love for the 'Luna llena' (full moon) symbolizes a romantic and idealistic nature, contrasting with the practicalities of everyday life. Ultimately, the song is a bittersweet farewell, a wish for the loved one to find happiness elsewhere, with someone better suited to her needs.