Você Ou Não Você (Eis a Questão)
Erasmo Carlos
The Dilemma of Authenticity and Love in 'Você Ou Não Você (Eis a Questão)'
Erasmo Carlos, a prominent figure in Brazilian rock and MPB (Música Popular Brasileira), delves into the complexities of love and self-identity in his song 'Você Ou Não Você (Eis a Questão)'. The title itself, which translates to 'You or Not You (That is the Question)', sets the stage for a lyrical exploration of authenticity and emotional honesty in relationships. The song's narrative revolves around the singer's plea for clarity and sincerity from his partner, emphasizing the importance of being true to oneself and to each other in a romantic relationship.
The lyrics present a series of choices and dilemmas, such as 'Seja ou não seja' (Be or not be) and 'Ame ou não ame' (Love or not love), highlighting the freedom and responsibility each person has in a relationship. Erasmo Carlos urges his partner to follow her heart and be clear about her feelings, whether they are of love or indifference. This plea for transparency is underscored by the repeated request for his partner to be straightforward and honest, as seen in lines like 'Mas seja clara, diga na minha cara' (But be clear, say it to my face).
The song also touches on the theme of unrequited love and the pain of uncertainty. The singer expresses his willingness to accept any outcome, even if it means facing rejection, as long as it is communicated honestly. This is poignantly captured in the lines 'Se você, meu amor, não me quer, que é que vou fazer? Nada, nada, nada' (If you, my love, don't want me, what am I going to do? Nothing, nothing, nothing). The repetition of 'nada' (nothing) emphasizes the helplessness and resignation that come with unreciprocated feelings. Ultimately, 'Você Ou Não Você (Eis a Questão)' is a heartfelt appeal for authenticity and emotional clarity in the face of love's uncertainties.