La Posible Manera

The song "La Posible Manera" by Fato is a poignant ballad that delves into the feelings of loss and disillusionment following the end of a romantic relationship. The lyrics express a deep sense of sorrow, not necessarily for the physical absence of the partner or their attributes, but for the loss of what could have been—a potential happiness that seemed within reach but ultimately slipped away.

The narrator in the song clarifies that their tears are not shed for the partner's physical allure or the intimate moments they shared, symbolized by the 'baby doll azul' that once made them tremble. Instead, the grief is rooted in the realization that the partner represented a chance at true happiness, which is now lost. The repetition of the phrase 'La posible manera de ser feliz' underscores the central theme of lost opportunity and the pain of recognizing that the partner was not the person they had imagined or hoped for.

Fato's lyrics also touch upon a deeper introspection, acknowledging a personal disposition towards solitude and the ongoing struggle with it. The song's melancholic tone is amplified by the realization that the pain of love is not lethal, but rather an enduring part of life. The final acceptance that the partner is 'simply a woman' suggests a coming to terms with the reality of the situation, moving past idealization to see the partner as a flawed human being, just like anyone else.