dona da razão
Fernando Daniel
The Struggle of Understanding in Love
Fernando Daniel's song 'dona da razão' delves into the complexities and frustrations of a romantic relationship where understanding and compatibility seem elusive. The lyrics express a sense of confusion and effort from the narrator, who tries to give more than what is asked but still feels misunderstood. This struggle is highlighted by the line 'Quero dar tudo mas nem sei bem o que queres,' which translates to 'I want to give everything but I don't even know what you want.' This sentiment sets the tone for the song, emphasizing the difficulty of meeting the partner's expectations and the inherent challenges in communication.
The chorus, 'Contigo no fundo é sempre assim, Tudo muda mas nada muda por aqui,' meaning 'With you, deep down it's always like this, everything changes but nothing changes here,' captures the cyclical nature of their relationship. Despite the passage of time, the fundamental issues remain unresolved, leading to a sense of stagnation. The narrator's admission, 'Dona da razão, eu peço perdão, É que eu não sei o que vi em ti,' or 'Owner of reason, I apologize, I don't know what I saw in you,' reflects a moment of realization and regret, acknowledging the disconnect and the fading love.
The song also contrasts the personalities and preferences of the two individuals, illustrating their differences through metaphors like 'Eu sou de ficar em casa, tu és de jantar fora,' which means 'I like to stay home, you like to dine out.' This juxtaposition underscores the incompatibility and the challenges of reconciling their distinct lifestyles and desires. The repeated refrain of not knowing what he saw in his partner further emphasizes the disillusionment and the emotional toll of trying to make the relationship work despite these fundamental differences.