When It Comes To Us

Frances' song 'When It Comes To Us' delves into the complexities and paradoxes of a relationship that defies conventional logic. The lyrics paint a picture of two individuals who are fundamentally different in their personalities and approaches to life. Frances describes herself as someone who 'turns tables and speaks too softly,' indicating a sense of uncertainty and gentleness. In contrast, her partner is 'so intense' and 'unable to calm down lightly,' highlighting a stark difference in their temperaments.

Despite these differences, the chorus emphasizes that their relationship 'really shouldn't work but it does.' This recurring line serves as the heart of the song, encapsulating the inexplicable yet undeniable connection between the two. The juxtaposition of their contrasting traits—her carefulness and his playfulness—creates a dynamic that is both challenging and harmonious. The song suggests that love can thrive even in the face of apparent incompatibility, as long as there is mutual understanding and acceptance.

The song also touches on the idea of missing pieces and the need for completion. Frances invites her partner to 'let me know what you're missing' and 'come take the pedestal,' implying that they each bring something essential to the relationship. This mutual dependency is what keeps them 'slipping' but also coming 'home' to each other. The repeated refrain of 'when it comes to us' underscores the unique and special nature of their bond, suggesting that their love exists in its own realm, beyond the rules and expectations of the outside world.