Older

Gracie Abrams' song 'Older' delves into the complexities and inevitable changes that come with growing up and evolving relationships. The lyrics paint a poignant picture of a relationship that once thrived but has since become strained and distant. The opening lines, 'Pinch me now / You're caught in my crossfire,' suggest a sense of disbelief and conflict, as if the speaker is grappling with the reality of their situation. The metaphor of 'crossfire' indicates a battleground of emotions where both parties are caught in the middle, unable to escape the tension that has built up over time.

As the song progresses, Abrams reflects on the gradual disintegration of the relationship. The lines 'We were so good, weren't we? / Till it just stopped working' highlight the nostalgia for better times and the confusion over why things fell apart. The imagery of tearing out the same page and leaving room for new mistakes suggests that both individuals have grown and changed, but not necessarily in ways that complement each other. This evolution is further emphasized by the repeated refrain, 'Guess that happened when we got older,' which underscores the inevitability of change and the impact it has on personal connections.

The song also touches on themes of communication and emotional distance. The lines 'You never quite let me in / When you felt cracks again' and 'I know I'm to blame for the small talk and tip toeing over' reveal a lack of openness and honesty that has contributed to the relationship's decline. The plea for a break to 'just letting each other breathe' suggests a desire for space and reflection, hoping that time apart might offer clarity and healing. Ultimately, 'Older' is a heartfelt exploration of how growing up can alter relationships, often leading to a bittersweet realization that sometimes, despite the best intentions, people simply grow apart.