It Could Have Been Us (feat. Christopher)
Griff
The Heartache of Missed Opportunities in 'It Could Have Been Us'
Griff's song 'It Could Have Been Us (feat. Christopher)' delves into the emotional turmoil of reflecting on a past relationship that could have been something more. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of regret and longing, as the narrator grapples with the 'what-ifs' and 'could-have-beens' of a love that never fully blossomed. The song opens with the narrator admitting to not being jealous, yet unable to stop scrolling through their ex's social media, a modern-day metaphor for lingering feelings and unresolved emotions. This sets the stage for a journey through the phases of heartbreak and self-reflection.
The chorus is a poignant reminder of the potential that was lost. Lines like 'It could have been us, it could have been love, it could have been easy, but we made it so hard' encapsulate the essence of missed opportunities and the pain of knowing that things could have turned out differently. The repetition of 'making it worse, making it hurt' emphasizes the self-inflicted nature of this heartache, as the narrator acknowledges their own role in the relationship's downfall. This self-awareness adds a layer of complexity to the song, making it not just a lament but also a confession.
As the song progresses, the narrator's struggle with moving on becomes evident. They admit to not wanting to know about their ex's new life, yet they can't help but run into them and be reminded of what was lost. The line 'I'm pretty sure I'm missing you in ways that you're not missing me' highlights the asymmetry of their feelings, adding to the sense of isolation and unreciprocated love. The song concludes with a bittersweet acceptance, as the narrator makes peace with the version of the relationship that never came to be, yet still feels the sting of what could have been. Griff and Christopher's collaboration brings these emotions to life, making 'It Could Have Been Us' a relatable anthem for anyone who has ever experienced the pain of a missed connection.