Hesitate

In 'Hesitate,' Hazlett delves into the complexities of a faltering relationship, capturing the emotional turmoil and uncertainty that often accompany such situations. The song opens with a melancholic reflection on a 'sad summer' and 'bad luck,' setting a somber tone that underscores the weight of unresolved issues. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a couple burdened by unspoken grievances and emotional baggage, symbolized by 'baggage' and 'closed doors.' These metaphors suggest that the couple has been avoiding confronting their problems, leading to a stagnant and deteriorating relationship.

The chorus is a poignant plea for clarity and communication. Hazlett's repeated question, 'If this is the end, then why do we hesitate?' encapsulates the paralysis that often grips individuals in troubled relationships. The hesitation to either move forward or end things is a common emotional state, driven by fear, hope, and the weight of shared history. The line 'Nothing is wrong when nobody's earned the blame' highlights the ambiguity and lack of clear fault, making it even harder to make definitive decisions.

Throughout the song, there is a recurring theme of missed connections and unspoken words. The imagery of 'leftover takeaways' and 'piles up around our place' symbolizes the physical and emotional clutter that has accumulated over time. The couple's inability to 'make time for talking and wine' signifies a loss of intimacy and genuine connection. The repeated refrain of 'we don't talk like we used to' and 'do you feel like a stranger too?' underscores the growing emotional distance between the partners. Hazlett's heartfelt delivery and the song's haunting melody amplify the sense of longing and unresolved tension, making 'Hesitate' a deeply relatable exploration of love's uncertainties.