Clean

Incubus' song "Clean" delves into the complexities and nuances of communication within a relationship. The lyrics paint a picture of a day that starts off well but takes a turn for the worse due to a misunderstanding or miscommunication. The protagonist finds themselves in a bind, questioning whether something they said or read has caused their partner's ambiguous mood. This uncertainty is further highlighted by the line, "Don't you dare come to bed with that ambiguous look in your eye," suggesting a desire for clarity and directness in their interactions.

The chorus, "Say what you will, say what you mean, no, you could never offend, your dirty words come out clean," underscores the paradox of communication. It suggests that honesty, even if it involves harsh or 'dirty' words, is preferable and can be perceived as 'clean' or pure when it comes from a place of sincerity. This reflects a longing for genuine expression and the belief that true feelings, no matter how raw, are essential for understanding and connection.

In the second verse, the protagonist contemplates ways to make amends, such as serving coffee in bed, and expresses a need for a 'map' of their partner's mind to avoid causing distress. This metaphor emphasizes the difficulty of navigating another person's emotions and the desire for a deeper understanding. The repeated plea for their partner to vent their frustrations and use 'four-letter words' suggests that open, honest communication, even if it involves anger or harshness, is crucial for the health of the relationship. The song ultimately highlights the importance of clear and honest communication, even when it is difficult, to maintain a strong and genuine connection.