Qué Me Vas a Dar
Jenni Rivera
The Bargain of Love: Jenni Rivera's 'Qué Me Vas a Dar'
Jenni Rivera's song 'Qué Me Vas a Dar' is a poignant exploration of the dynamics of a romantic relationship that has experienced turmoil and the contemplation of a possible reconciliation. Rivera, known for her powerful voice and emotive ballads in the Regional Mexican music genre, often sang about themes of love, betrayal, and strength, and this song is no exception.
The lyrics of 'Qué Me Vas a Dar' pose a direct question to a former lover: what will they offer if she decides to return to the relationship? The song reflects a negotiation of emotional investment, with Rivera expressing that she has given much and is now questioning what her partner can contribute. The mention of 'el día que nos dejamos' (the day we left each other) suggests a past breakup, and Rivera's acknowledgment of her partner's 'amores nuevos' (new loves) indicates that both have moved on, at least superficially. However, Rivera's character has found a new love and is finding it difficult to leave this new relationship for a past that may not offer anything substantial.
The song also touches on self-worth and the refusal to settle for less. Rivera's character demands to know what tangible benefits she will receive, comparing love to a transaction where both parties should gain equally. The line 'Si otras ganan por lo que hacen, Yo también quiero ganar' (If others win for what they do, I also want to win) underscores the desire for a fair exchange in love. Rivera's music often empowered women to value themselves and not to accept being undervalued in relationships, and 'Qué Me Vas a Dar' is a testament to that message.