Não Era Você
João Bosco e Vinícius
Finding True Love After a Series of Disappointments
In the song "Não Era Você" by João Bosco e Vinícius, the lyrics delve into the emotional journey of someone who has experienced numerous fleeting relationships and empty encounters. The protagonist reflects on past experiences filled with meaningless kisses, empty conversations, and sleepless nights. These transient moments lacked depth and commitment, as the individual was always avoiding the initial stages of a serious relationship, seeking pleasure without any real connection.
The lyrics reveal a sense of fear and mistrust towards love, as the protagonist viewed every potential relationship as a threat. This fear led to a pattern of self-sabotage, where the protagonist would give out the wrong number, metaphorically pushing love away. The repeated encounters and moments were superficial, and the protagonist was unable to see beyond the smiles, only perceiving potential heartbreak.
However, the turning point in the song comes with the realization that the reason for all these failed connections was that none of them were with the right person. The chorus emphasizes this epiphany, stating, "É porque não era você" (It's because it wasn't you). The protagonist expresses a willingness to trade multiple single lives for a lifetime with the right person. This shift signifies a newfound readiness to embrace true love and commitment, leaving behind the fear and superficiality of past relationships. The song beautifully captures the journey from disillusionment to the hope and promise of genuine love.