Como Eu Quero

João Gomes' song 'Como Eu Quero' delves into the complexities of romantic relationships, particularly focusing on power dynamics and the desire for control. The lyrics open with a playful yet commanding tone, suggesting a mix of affection and authority. The line 'Diz pra eu ficar mudo ou faz cara de mistério' (Tell me to be silent or make a mysterious face) sets the stage for a relationship where one partner seeks to dominate or guide the other. This theme is further emphasized with 'Tira essa bermuda, que eu quero você sério' (Take off those shorts, I want you serious), indicating a desire for the partner to conform to certain expectations.

The chorus, 'Ôh, eu quero você como eu quero' (Oh, I want you the way I want), reinforces this notion of control and customization. The singer wants their partner to fit a specific mold, transforming them from a 'rascunho' (draft) into 'arte final' (final art). This metaphor suggests that the partner is seen as a work in progress, needing refinement and improvement. The lyrics 'Cada um por si, você por mim e mais nada' (Each for themselves, you for me and nothing else) highlight a somewhat selfish perspective, where the partner's needs are secondary to the singer's desires.

The song also touches on the consequences of stepping out of this controlled environment. 'Longe do meu domínio, cê vai de mal a pior' (Away from my domain, you go from bad to worse) implies that the partner's well-being is dependent on staying within the singer's influence. This creates a sense of dependency and suggests that the singer believes they are essential for the partner's improvement. The repeated offer to 'ensino como ser bem melhor' (teach you how to be much better) further underscores this dynamic, positioning the singer as a mentor or guide in the relationship.