Cheating

John Newman's song 'Cheating' delves into the emotional turmoil and complex dynamics of a relationship marred by infidelity. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a partner who repeatedly engages in cheating, causing a cycle of hurt and betrayal. Newman’s voice, filled with a mix of resignation and longing, underscores the pain of loving someone who continually breaks his trust. The repetition of days of the week in the lyrics emphasizes the ongoing nature of the betrayal, making it clear that this is not a one-time occurrence but a persistent issue.

The chorus, where Newman sings, 'And if you're cheating, cheat on, yeah / 'Cause cheating's just a thing you do,' reveals a sense of helpless acceptance. He acknowledges that cheating is a part of his partner's behavior, something ingrained and habitual. Despite this, he still offers his love, suggesting a deep, perhaps irrational, commitment to the relationship. This paradox of loving someone who causes pain is a central theme, highlighting the complexities of human emotions and relationships.

Newman's repeated assertion that he could love his partner 'better than you once knew' suggests a yearning to be enough for his partner, to be the one who can change their ways. However, the repeated lines 'You are the one who's creeping / You are the one who's cheating' serve as a stark reminder of the reality he faces. The song captures the essence of a one-sided love where one partner is willing to endure pain and betrayal in the hope of a better future, reflecting the often irrational nature of love and the hope for redemption in a flawed relationship.