That Man
Jon Pardi
The Unspoken Love of a Best Friend
Jon Pardi's song "That Man" delves into the emotional turmoil and unspoken love that exists between two best friends. The lyrics reveal a deep, long-standing friendship that has always been platonic, but the narrator harbors feelings that go beyond mere friendship. He has always loved her, but now he feels an urgent need to express his true emotions, especially as he watches her suffer in a relationship filled with lies and deceit. The song captures the essence of a friend who is ready to step up and be the partner she truly deserves.
The chorus emphasizes the narrator's readiness to be the man she needs. He contrasts himself with her current partner, who has let her down, and positions himself as the one who has always been there, waiting for the right moment to reveal his feelings. The repetition of the lines "when you wanna be wanted" and "when you need to be needed" underscores his understanding of her emotional needs and his willingness to fulfill them. This part of the song is a heartfelt plea, a declaration that he is the right man for her, someone who will never let her down.
The song also touches on themes of patience and unwavering support. The narrator is willing to wait for her to realize that he is the one who truly cares for her. He is there to pick her up when she falls and promises never to let her down. This unwavering support and patience highlight the depth of his love and commitment. Jon Pardi's country style, known for its storytelling and emotional depth, perfectly complements the narrative of unspoken love and the hope for a future together.