Blink Twice

Joy Oladokun's 'Blink Twice' delves into the complexities and silent struggles of a relationship on the brink of collapse. The song opens with the poignant line, 'There’s more to be said in the silence,' setting the tone for a narrative filled with unspoken words and emotional voids. The silence between the couple is deafening, and the protagonist is left to fill in the blanks, trying to decipher the true feelings of their partner. This silence is contrasted with the metaphor of a siren, which, despite its loudness, carries a sense of emptiness and foreboding, much like the relationship itself.

The recurring theme of 'coming undone' and 'holding onto a thread' illustrates the fragile state of the relationship. The protagonist is learning to 'pick their battles,' a sign of emotional exhaustion and the realization that not every conflict is worth the fight. This is a common experience in relationships where communication has broken down, and both parties are left feeling isolated and misunderstood. The line 'I only know you’re home when the door speaks' further emphasizes the lack of direct communication, relying on indirect signs to gauge the partner's presence and feelings.

The chorus, with its plea to 'Blink twice if you still love me,' encapsulates the desperation and uncertainty that permeates the song. The protagonist is seeking a simple, non-verbal confirmation of love, highlighting the difficulty of expressing and receiving emotional truths. The repeated question, 'Did you ever really love me?' underscores the deep-seated insecurity and doubt that has taken root. This song is a raw and honest portrayal of the emotional turmoil that accompanies a failing relationship, where love is questioned, and silence speaks volumes.