Giver

K.Flay's song "Giver" delves into the complexities of self-improvement and emotional vulnerability. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of someone grappling with the aftermath of a failed relationship and the subsequent emotional turmoil. The opening lines, where the protagonist confesses to falling in and out of love and letting a stranger into their bed, highlight a desperate need for connection and validation. This sets the stage for the recurring theme of searching for a new way to cope and move forward.

The chorus, with its repeated lines "I'm learning to live, I'm tryna' be better, I'm learning to give, but I don’t know if I'm a giver," encapsulates the internal conflict of wanting to grow and improve while doubting one's capacity to truly give and be vulnerable. This struggle is further emphasized by the admission of daily failures and the use of medication to manage emotional pain. The lyrics suggest a cycle of self-sabotage and the difficulty of breaking free from it.

In the latter part of the song, K.Flay touches on the idea of having potential and high hopes but feeling lost and ungrounded. The lines "I got so much soul in my body, but no one keeping me honest" and "whole days turn into holes in my mind" reflect a sense of disconnection and the challenge of staying true to oneself. Despite these struggles, there is a determination to hold on to what is important, as seen in the line "I will not let go of what is mine." This song is a raw and honest exploration of the journey towards self-betterment and the doubts that accompany it.