Chegou de Manso
Lagum
The Push and Pull of Love: A Dance of Contradictions
“Chegou de Manso” by Lagum is a vibrant exploration of the complexities and contradictions inherent in romantic relationships. The song opens with a gentle arrival, as the title suggests, where the protagonist is captivated by a partner who appreciates his rhythm and dance. Despite acknowledging that she often lies, he remains enchanted and willing to do anything for her, from making breakfast in bed to tying her shoelaces. This sets the stage for a relationship marked by a blend of affection and frustration.
The lyrics delve into the push and pull dynamic between the couple. The protagonist admits to being weak in matters of love, easily swayed by his partner's whims. She complains about their lack of communication, yet he finds her complaints endearing. This paradoxical enjoyment of her nagging and his own complaints highlights the complexity of their bond. The chorus emphasizes this tension, with the protagonist always wanting more when his partner seems to want less, creating a cycle of desire and dissatisfaction.
As the song progresses, the protagonist's feelings oscillate between love and irritation. He admits to feeling bipolar, loving her one moment and being unable to stand her the next. This emotional rollercoaster is further complicated by his partner's silence and his own humorous approach to life. The repeated refrain of wanting more when she wants less underscores the difficulty of finding balance in their relationship. Ultimately, “Chegou de Manso” captures the tumultuous yet captivating nature of love, where contradictions and emotional swings are part of the dance that keeps the relationship alive.