Self Esteem (feat. NLE Choppa)

Lambo4oe's track 'Self Esteem,' featuring NLE Choppa, delves into the intimate and physical connection between two people, using explicit language to describe the impact of a sexual relationship on one's confidence. The song's title suggests a play on the concept of self-esteem, typically understood as one's sense of self-worth, but here it is tied to the validation received through a partner's desire and sexual satisfaction.

The lyrics oscillate between moments of physical intimacy and emotional vulnerability. Phrases like 'Is it the kisses for me?' and 'Damn, baby, you get my self-esteem' indicate that the protagonist's confidence is boosted by the affection and sexual attention from their partner. The repetition of these lines throughout the song emphasizes the importance of this connection to the protagonist's self-perception. The sexual descriptions serve to illustrate the intensity of their encounters, suggesting a deep level of comfort and passion that transcends mere physical pleasure.

In contrast to the celebration of intimate connection, the song also touches on themes of competition and comparison. References to an ex-partner who is failing in life ('He ain't really even got a job') and engages in criminal activity ('Your ex got locked up upstate') highlight a sense of superiority in the current relationship. The protagonist presents themselves as a better alternative, someone who can provide not just physical satisfaction but also a more stable and exciting lifestyle. This juxtaposition adds a layer of complexity to the song, as it intertwines themes of love, lust, and the quest for self-worth through the lens of romantic and sexual conquest.