If It's Not You

Language of Flowers' song 'If It's Not You' delves into the emotional turmoil of unrequited love and the journey towards self-discovery. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a person grappling with the pain of seeing someone they care about with another person. The opening lines set the stage for this emotional struggle, highlighting the unfairness of the situation and the internal conflict of feeling lost and unfulfilled.

The chorus, 'But if I can't have you, I know what to do, I know where to go, to get over you,' reflects a sense of resilience and determination. Despite the heartache, the protagonist acknowledges the need to move on and find a way to heal. This sentiment is further emphasized in the verses, where the protagonist observes the object of their affection with someone else, recognizing the futility of their feelings and the necessity of letting go.

The song also touches on themes of self-worth and the realization that the person they long for may not be the ideal partner. The lines 'I've heard it all a million times please take me back I miss you, still you don't seem to understand I've lost the will to kiss you' suggest a turning point where the protagonist begins to see the relationship for what it truly is. This moment of clarity is crucial in their journey towards self-acceptance and moving forward.

'If It's Not You' is a poignant exploration of love, loss, and the strength it takes to move on. The song's introspective lyrics and emotional depth resonate with anyone who has experienced the pain of unrequited love and the subsequent path to self-discovery.