Second Best
Laufey
The Heartache of Being 'Second Best'
The song 'Second Best' by Laufey delves into the emotional turmoil of feeling like a secondary option in a romantic relationship. The lyrics convey a narrative of unrequited love and the pain of realizing that one's affection is not fully reciprocated. The artist reflects on the bittersweet memories of being in love with someone who considered them as an afterthought, highlighting the imbalance in the relationship where the singer gave their all while being the other person's 'second best.'
The song's verses paint a vivid picture of the singer's realization and the subsequent emotional struggle. Phrases like 'walked a little faster, left me behind' and 'kissed me with somebody else in mind' suggest a partner who is physically present but emotionally distant, preoccupied with someone else. The chorus, 'Oh, you were my everything, I was your second best,' encapsulates the core sentiment of the song, expressing the heartbreak of unequal love. The singer's vulnerability is palpable as they admit to loving 'way too much' and settling for less than they deserved.
Despite the melancholy tone, there is a sense of growth and self-reflection as the song progresses. The lines 'You've given me nothing to miss' and 'life has been much better since' indicate a journey towards healing and self-worth. The singer contemplates moving on, learning from the experience, and finding someone who will not treat them as 'second best.' Laufey's soulful voice and the gentle instrumentation add to the song's introspective and poignant mood, making it a touching portrayal of love, loss, and the hope for a better future.