Because
Lee Hi
The Heartbreaking Acceptance of Moving On
Lee Hi's song "Because" delves into the emotional turmoil and eventual acceptance that comes with the end of a significant relationship. The lyrics poignantly capture the protagonist's struggle to come to terms with the breakup, oscillating between feelings of resentment and a reluctant understanding that moving on is necessary. The repeated phrase "nal ij-eodo dwae" (it's okay to forget me) underscores the painful yet liberating realization that both parties need to let go to find happiness again.
The song opens with a sense of confusion and blame, as the protagonist questions why everything seems to be their fault. This sets the stage for a narrative where the protagonist grapples with the idea that their efforts to make the relationship work were in vain. The line "nan neo ttaem-e sal-ass-eo" (I lived because of you) highlights the depth of their emotional investment, making the breakup even more devastating. The protagonist's plea for the other person to stop calling and to be happy without them reveals a selfless desire for the other's well-being, even at the cost of their own happiness.
As the song progresses, the protagonist's tone shifts from sorrow to a more resigned acceptance. The repeated apologies and the acknowledgment that they can no longer continue fighting signify a turning point. The chorus, with its bittersweet reflection on the past—"usgo ulgo bulgwa gatdeon naldeul" (the days we laughed, cried, and fought)—serves as a poignant reminder of the relationship's highs and lows. Ultimately, the song is a heartfelt exploration of the complexities of love and the painful yet necessary process of moving on.