Lost & Found

Lianne La Havas' song 'Lost & Found' delves deep into the emotional turmoil of a broken relationship and the subsequent journey of self-discovery. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of vulnerability and pain, as the protagonist invites the listener to witness the hidden parts of her soul where her 'demons hide.' This metaphorical space represents the internal struggles and insecurities that have been exacerbated by the relationship. The shame and self-loathing she feels are palpable, highlighting the profound impact the other person had on her self-esteem.

The recurring lines 'You broke me and taught me to truly hate myself' and 'Unfold me and teach me how to be like somebody else' underscore the destructive nature of the relationship. The protagonist's sense of identity has been shattered, and she feels lost, trying to become someone she is not to please her partner. This theme of losing oneself in a relationship is a powerful commentary on the dangers of emotional dependency and the importance of self-worth.

As the song progresses, there is a glimmer of hope when the protagonist mentions being 'discovered by the love I had been waiting for so long.' However, this hope is quickly dashed when she realizes that the love she thought was real was an illusion. The repeated refrain of 'You're lost and found, fallen out, broken down' encapsulates the cyclical nature of her emotional state, oscillating between moments of clarity and despair. Lianne La Havas' soulful delivery and poignant lyrics make 'Lost & Found' a haunting exploration of love, loss, and the quest for self-acceptance.