De que lado del amor

Los Cafres' song 'De que lado del amor' delves into the complexities and dualities of love, exploring the fine line between joy and pain. The lyrics open with a sense of disbelief and confusion, as the narrator reflects on numerous attempts to make a relationship work, only to find themselves questioning the reality of their situation. The phrase 'De qué lado del amor hiriendonos, arriba o abajo?' poignantly captures the uncertainty and hurt that can accompany love, asking whether the pain comes from being uplifted or brought down by the relationship.

The song continues to explore the paradox of love, where immense affection can transform into profound sorrow. The line 'Quien diria tanto amor seria hoy dolor' highlights this transformation, suggesting that the intensity of their love has now become a source of pain. The metaphor of being 'naufragos' or castaways, 'remando con las manos' (rowing with their hands), symbolizes the struggle to stay afloat in the turbulent waters of their relationship. Despite the confusion and hardship, the narrator acknowledges the enduring beauty of their partner's essence, even as they grapple with the distance and separation that has become apparent with the rising sun.

The recurring theme of being lost and trying to find their way back to each other is underscored by the imagery of a map and the deceptive nature of the past ('Será ayer el que nos engaño'). The song paints a vivid picture of love as a journey fraught with challenges, where the lovers are like shipwrecked sailors, striving to navigate their way through the storm. Ultimately, 'De que lado del amor' is a poignant reflection on the bittersweet nature of love, capturing the emotional highs and lows that come with deep connections and the inevitable heartache that can follow.