Para Que
Los Chalchaleros
Love in the Shadows: Navigating Forbidden Romance in 'Para Que'
Los Chalchaleros' song 'Para Que' is a poignant exploration of a love hindered by external obstacles, specifically the disapproval of a significant other’s mother. The lyrics, written in the traditional Argentine folk style known as cueca, convey a sense of frustration and longing. The repeated question 'Para qué querís que vaya' ('Why do you want me to go') underscores the futility felt by the narrator, who is constantly thwarted by the presence of the disapproving 'vieja' (old woman). This term, colloquially used to refer to an older woman, likely represents the mother of the narrator's beloved, who does not approve of their relationship.
The song paints vivid scenes of the narrator's attempts to meet their lover, only to be interrupted or prevented by the ever-watchful 'vieja.' The line 'Ni me da tiempo a que llegue, como sombra, se aparece' ('She doesn't even give me time to arrive, like a shadow, she appears') captures the omnipresent nature of this obstacle. The frustration is palpable, as the narrator feels they cannot even steal a moment of privacy. The chorus further emphasizes this struggle, recalling a moment when a kiss was interrupted by the 'vieja,' highlighting the constant vigilance and interference they face.
The song also touches on the physical and emotional toll this situation takes on the narrator. The imagery of being 'enfermo y con moquillo' ('sick and with a runny nose') and 'todo el día estornudando' ('sneezing all day') suggests that the stress and cold from waiting outside in the elements are making the narrator physically ill. Despite these hardships, the narrator's dedication to their lover is unwavering, as they continue to wait and hope for a moment when they can be together without interference. 'Para Que' is a heartfelt depiction of love's resilience in the face of relentless opposition, capturing the universal struggle of lovers against societal and familial barriers.