Call Me What You Like
Lovejoy
The Tumultuous Dance of Modern Romance
The song "Call Me What You Like" by Lovejoy delves into the complexities of modern relationships, particularly those influenced by the digital age and the insecurities that come with it. The lyrics paint a picture of two individuals who are disillusioned with the world around them, including the internet and the news, seeking solace in each other's company. However, there's an underlying tension and uncertainty about the nature of their relationship and their feelings for each other.
The chorus of the song suggests a relationship where physical intimacy is present, but emotional clarity is not. The repeated lines "You could kiss the skin from my lips if it makes you feel good" and the uncertainty expressed in "I'm not sure if you want it, not sure if you need me, too" reflect a dynamic where the protagonist is willing to be whatever the other person needs, even if it means ignoring their own needs or feelings. This is further emphasized by the imagery of tasting the beer on every guy that talks to the person of interest, indicating jealousy and the fear of being just one of many.
The bridge of the song introduces a self-deprecating tone, with the protagonist labeling themselves a "total fucking dumbass" and admitting to a life of "constant paranoia." This section of the song could be interpreted as the internal monologue of someone who is deeply insecure in their relationship, always fearing the worst. The metaphor of the road to happiness being lined with tempting parking spaces suggests that while there may be many opportunities for contentment, the protagonist feels they are always just out of reach, possibly due to their own self-sabotaging behaviors.