Sex Sells
Lovejoy
The Bitter Taste of Betrayal and the Commodification of Intimacy
The song "Sex Sells" by Lovejoy delves into the complexities of modern relationships, betrayal, and the cynical view of how sex is commodified in society. The lyrics paint a picture of a protagonist who is grappling with the infidelity of a partner, who is leaving for someone else, possibly for materialistic reasons. The repeated phrase 'they say sex sells, I know that' suggests a resignation to the idea that sex is often used as a currency or a bargaining chip in relationships and society at large.
The narrative of the song seems to focus on the emotional turmoil of the protagonist. The mention of 'sleeping with the lights on' indicates a sense of fear or insecurity, possibly due to the absence of the partner and the betrayal that has occurred. The reference to the partner going to 'his flat' and the disdain for the partner's zodiac sign, 'a Capricorn,' adds a personal touch to the betrayal, making it feel more intimate and specific. The song's chorus reflects the protagonist's struggle to come to terms with the situation and the larger commentary on how sexual relationships can be manipulated for personal gain.
The song also touches on themes of privilege and hypocrisy. The lines about the partner's father working on the council and the partner's affinity for a 'silver spoon' lifestyle suggest a critique of the upper class and their moral flexibility. The protagonist seems to be questioning the partner's values, contrasting the allure of wealth and status with the idea of doing 'what's right.' The song ends with a haunting question about how one can sleep at night, implying a moral judgment on those who exploit others for their own benefit.