What You're Made Of
Lucie Silvas
Navigating the Waters of Unrequited Love
Lucie Silvas' song "What You're Made Of" delves into the emotional journey of recognizing and accepting unrequited love. The lyrics convey a sense of inevitability and resignation as the speaker comes to terms with the fact that the person they are with is not capable of giving the love and commitment they desire. The metaphor of being at 'the point of no return' and choosing 'the waters that I'm in' suggests that the speaker is aware of their situation and acknowledges their role in it, yet they still yearn for something more fulfilling.
The chorus of the song is particularly poignant, emphasizing the disconnect between the speaker's needs and their partner's inability to meet them. The repetition of 'If it's not what you're made of, you're not what I'm looking for' underscores the realization that no matter how much one might want to change or save a relationship, sometimes the fundamental differences in what each person can offer are insurmountable. The song captures the heartache of holding onto hope for a love that will never materialize, and the strength it takes to let go.
Silvas' song is not just about the end of a relationship, but also about self-discovery and self-respect. The speaker's determination to 'deserve much more than this' reflects a growing understanding of their own worth and the courage to seek a love that is reciprocal. The song resonates with anyone who has ever had to walk away from a relationship that was one-sided, recognizing that sometimes the hardest choices lead to the greatest growth and self-empowerment.