El Oficio de Ser Mama
Macaferri & Asociados
The Innocence and Complexity of Childhood Love
The song "El Oficio de Ser Mama" by Macaferri & Asociados tells a story through the innocent eyes of a child who is experiencing love, or what he perceives as love, for the first time. The lyrics describe a young boy's affection for a girl named Natalia, detailing their interactions in a playful and childlike manner, such as exchanging plasticine and holding hands. The boy's declaration of love includes naive plans of marriage and escape on his tricycle, showcasing the simplicity of childhood dreams and understanding of adult relationships.
However, the song takes an unexpected turn when it becomes apparent that the boy and girl have engaged in some form of physical intimacy, leading to Natalia's pregnancy. The lyrics then shift to the consequences of their actions, with the boy's confusion and the arrival of a baby. The song uses this narrative to highlight the lack of understanding children have about the gravity of adult actions, such as sex and parenthood. It also touches on the theme of premature responsibility, as the boy contemplates dropping out of preschool to work and take care of the baby, while Natalia learns 'the trade of being a mom.'
The song is a poignant commentary on the importance of childhood education regarding love, relationships, and the consequences of adult actions. It serves as a reminder of the innocence of children and the critical role of guidance in their development. The playful tone of the music contrasts with the serious subject matter, creating a thought-provoking piece that encourages reflection on how children perceive and mimic adult behaviors.