Therapist
Mae Muller
The Emotional Burden: Mae Muller's 'Therapist'
Mae Muller's song 'Therapist' delves into the emotional strain of being in a one-sided relationship. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a partner who is emotionally draining and constantly bringing stress into the relationship. The protagonist feels unappreciated and burdened by the negativity that her partner pours out. The line 'You don't bring home roses, you just bring home stress' encapsulates the lack of appreciation and the overwhelming sense of responsibility she feels for her partner's emotional well-being.
The chorus, 'You don't need a girlfriend, you just need a therapist,' is a powerful statement that highlights the protagonist's realization that her partner's issues are beyond what she can handle. She acknowledges that she is not equipped to deal with the 'drama' and emotional baggage that her partner carries. This realization is a turning point, as she understands that her efforts to make her partner happy are futile and that she is not responsible for fixing his problems.
The song also touches on the theme of self-care and the importance of setting boundaries. The protagonist questions, 'If I spend all my time, all my energy taking care of you, who gonna take care of me?' This line underscores the necessity of prioritizing one's own mental and emotional health. The repetitive nature of the chorus and the la-la-la refrains emphasize the cyclical and exhausting nature of the relationship. Ultimately, 'Therapist' is a candid exploration of the emotional toll of being in a relationship where one partner is expected to be the emotional caretaker, and the importance of recognizing when it's time to step back and prioritize oneself.