Saudade Do Meu Ex

Marília Mendonça's song 'Saudade Do Meu Ex' is a poignant exploration of regret and longing for a past relationship. The lyrics convey the singer's dissatisfaction with her current partner, who imposes strict rules and lacks the spontaneity and excitement she once enjoyed with her ex. The phrase 'Que saudade do meu ex' (I miss my ex) is repeated throughout the song, emphasizing her deep yearning for the freedom and joy she experienced in her previous relationship.

The song paints a vivid picture of the contrast between her past and present relationships. Her ex-partner is described as someone who shared her love for drinking and living life without constraints, a 'homem de verdade' (a real man) who matched her lifestyle. In contrast, her current partner is depicted as dull and controlling, with a focus on routines like college, gym, and early bedtimes. This stark difference highlights her sense of entrapment and the loss of her true self in the current relationship.

Marília Mendonça, known as the 'Queen of Suffering' in Brazilian music, often sings about themes of love, heartbreak, and empowerment. In 'Saudade Do Meu Ex,' she not only expresses her regret but also reclaims her autonomy. The repeated lines 'Desconfia, agora eu faço o que eu quero' (Suspect, now I do what I want) and 'Vou voltar pra casa louca' (I'll come home crazy) signify her determination to break free from the constraints of her current relationship and return to a life where she feels more authentic and liberated. This song resonates with many who have experienced similar feelings of nostalgia and the struggle to maintain one's identity in a relationship.