Comme D'habitude
M. Pokora
The Monotony of Love and Life in 'Comme D'habitude'
The song 'Comme D'habitude,' performed by M. Pokora, delves into the theme of routine and the emotional detachment that can develop in a long-term relationship. The lyrics describe a day in the life of the narrator, who goes through the motions of his daily activities 'as usual' ('comme d'habitude' in French). The repetition of this phrase underscores the sense of monotony and the lack of genuine connection between the narrator and his partner.
From the moment the narrator wakes up and interacts with his partner, there is a palpable sense of going through the motions without real engagement or warmth. The actions described—such as caressing hair, dressing quickly, and leaving the house—are all done out of habit rather than affection. The song captures the narrator's internal struggle as he maintains a facade of normalcy, smiling and pretending throughout the day, even though he feels disconnected and alone.
The song's melancholic tone is further emphasized by the narrator's admission of his loneliness and the act of hiding his tears 'as usual.' The relationship has become a series of habitual actions, including making love, which are devoid of the passion they once might have held. 'Comme D'habitude' is a poignant reflection on the emptiness that can accompany lost intimacy and the facade people often maintain to avoid confronting the underlying issues in their relationships.