Per Lei Contro Di Lei

Mecano's song 'Per Lei Contro Di Lei' delves into the complexities of a forbidden love between two women, exploring themes of secrecy, societal judgment, and the internal conflict that accompanies such a relationship. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of the clandestine nature of their love, where even holding hands in public is a significant act, but doing so under the table in a bar adds a layer of intimacy and secrecy. This love is described as one that 'does not go,' implying it is not socially accepted, and thus, friendship becomes a cover for their true feelings.

The song highlights the internal struggles of the two women, with one thinking, 'with her, I will sin,' and the other considering it a sin to say no to their love. This dichotomy reflects the societal pressures and the personal guilt they feel, yet they are determined to be together regardless of what people might think. The metaphor of doves being held back from flying symbolizes their love being suppressed by societal norms, yet their desire to be together remains strong.

The narrator's perspective adds another layer to the song, expressing a non-judgmental stance. They refuse to 'cast the first stone' and choose to leave quietly if they ever witness the two women together. This silent acceptance contrasts with the harsh judgment they face from society, emphasizing the need for understanding and compassion. The recurring imagery of doves being brought down to the ground underscores the tragedy of love being stifled by external forces, yet the song ultimately champions the resilience of love against all odds.