Lunchbox Friends

Melanie Martinez's 'Lunchbox Friends' is a candid exploration of superficial relationships, particularly those formed in the high-pressure environment of school or social circles where appearances often matter more than genuine connections. The song delves into the concept of 'lunchbox friends,' a term coined by Martinez to describe relationships that are convenient and surface-level, lasting only as long as they are beneficial or until a certain time—like the end of the lunch period. Martinez's lyrics express a desire for authentic friendships that extend beyond the superficial interactions that are often dictated by social norms and expectations.

The song's chorus, 'I don't want no lunchbox friends, no / I want someone who understands,' underscores the yearning for deeper, more meaningful relationships. Martinez criticizes the transactional nature of these temporary friendships, where people talk and hang out only when it suits them, and then disregard each other outside of those set times. The line 'Come to my house, let's die together / Friendship that will last forever' uses hyperbole to emphasize the contrast between the fleeting nature of lunchbox friendships and the longing for a bond that is enduring and profound.

Martinez also touches on societal pressures, such as the desire to conform to beauty standards or the pursuit of materialistic goals. She rejects the notion of living a life that's expected of her, one that resembles a 'Barbie' or involves chasing after an idealized family life. The song is a critique of the shallow values that are often propagated by media and peer groups, and a call for authenticity in a world that prioritizes image over substance.