Sugar

In 'Sugar,' Men I Trust delves into the complexities and frustrations of a relationship that seems to be stuck in a loop of unfulfilled promises and emotional distance. The song opens with the narrator expressing a sense of exhaustion from offering 'made up consolations' and waiting endlessly for something to change. The repeated reference to 'sugar cane, sugar' serves as a metaphor for the sweetness that once existed in the relationship but has now turned into a source of frustration and longing.

The lyrics highlight the imbalance in the relationship, where one person seems adept at escaping difficult situations, leaving the narrator feeling neglected and out of time for 'indignations.' This sense of imbalance is further emphasized in the chorus, which repeats the phrase 'it goes on and on and on,' suggesting a never-ending cycle of emotional turmoil. The narrator's plea for the other person to find something they cherish and to hold them 'just like you mean it' underscores a deep desire for genuine connection and commitment.

As the song progresses, the narrator questions whether they are the one with 'much imagination,' hinting at the possibility that their expectations may be unrealistic. The final lines reveal a sense of resignation, acknowledging that the other person never promised to be 'wiser or better.' This acceptance of the relationship's limitations adds a layer of melancholy to the song, capturing the bittersweet nature of love and the struggle to find balance and fulfillment in a partnership that may never fully meet one's needs.