Ramito de Violetas

“Ramito de Violetas” by Mi Banda El Mexicano tells a poignant story of a woman trapped in a loveless marriage, finding solace and joy in the mysterious letters and flowers she receives from an unknown admirer. The song begins by describing her marriage to a man who is described as having a bad temper and lacking tenderness. Despite this, she has been receiving poetic letters and bouquets of violets for over three years, which have brought her happiness and a sense of being cherished.

The lyrics delve into her curiosity and daydreams about the identity of her secret admirer. She imagines him as an older man with a kind smile and gentle hands, someone who suffers in silence and loves her deeply. This secret correspondence becomes a source of emotional sustenance for her, contrasting sharply with the coldness of her marriage. The repeated question, “Who wrote you those verses, tell me girl, who was it?” underscores the mystery and her longing to know the identity of her admirer.

The twist in the narrative comes towards the end of the song when it is revealed that her husband is actually the one sending the letters and flowers. Despite his outward demeanor, he is the secret admirer who has been expressing his love in a hidden way. This revelation adds a layer of complexity to their relationship, suggesting that beneath his rough exterior, he harbors deep affection for her. The song beautifully captures the themes of hidden love, unspoken emotions, and the transformative power of small acts of kindness.