Comme d'habitude

Michel Sardou's song 'Comme d'habitude' delves into the repetitive and emotionally detached routine of a relationship that has lost its spark. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a daily life filled with mechanical actions and a lack of genuine emotional connection. The phrase 'comme d'habitude,' which translates to 'as usual,' is repeated throughout the song, emphasizing the monotony and predictability of the protagonist's life. Each day begins with the same actions: waking up, trying to connect with a partner who remains unresponsive, and going through the motions of daily tasks without any real engagement or joy.

The song's narrative is rich with metaphors that highlight the emotional distance between the couple. The protagonist's actions, such as covering their partner with a blanket and caressing their hair, are done 'presque malgré moi' (almost despite myself), indicating a sense of obligation rather than genuine affection. The coldness of the outside world mirrors the coldness within the relationship, and the protagonist's solitary coffee and silent departure from the house underscore the isolation they feel. The repetition of 'comme d'habitude' in the chorus reinforces the sense of being trapped in a cycle of pretense and emotional numbness.

Culturally, 'Comme d'habitude' resonates with anyone who has experienced the slow erosion of intimacy in a relationship. The song's universal theme of emotional disconnection and the struggle to maintain appearances is something many can relate to. Michel Sardou's poignant delivery and the melancholic melody further amplify the sense of resignation and sadness that permeates the song. The lyrics also touch on the societal expectation to 'faire semblant' (pretend) and maintain a facade of normalcy, even when the reality is far from it. This song serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of genuine emotional connection and the toll that a lack of it can take on individuals and relationships.