Use Me

Mick Jagger's song 'Use Me' delves into the complex dynamics of a relationship where one partner is seemingly being taken advantage of, yet finds immense pleasure in the experience. The lyrics reveal a narrative where the protagonist's friends and family express concern over the apparent exploitation. They warn him that his partner's intentions are purely selfish, aiming to 'use' him. However, the protagonist's response is one of defiance and contentment, as he finds joy and satisfaction in the very act of being used. This paradoxical pleasure forms the crux of the song's message.

The protagonist's brother, in particular, tries to reason with him, advising against allowing himself to be mistreated. Despite acknowledging his brother's good intentions, the protagonist remains steadfast in his belief that the pleasure he derives from the relationship outweighs any negative aspects. He even suggests that if his brother truly understood the depth of his feelings, he would envy his position. This highlights the subjective nature of happiness and fulfillment, suggesting that what might seem detrimental to one person can be a source of joy for another.

The song also touches on moments of genuine abuse, where the partner's behavior is openly disrespectful, especially in social settings. Yet, the protagonist's love and desire for his partner overshadow these instances of mistreatment. The repeated refrain, 'If it feels this good getting used, you can keep on using me until you use me up,' encapsulates the essence of the song. It speaks to the idea that the intensity of pleasure and emotional connection can sometimes lead individuals to accept, or even embrace, situations that others might view as harmful or degrading. Mick Jagger's 'Use Me' thus explores the intricate and often contradictory nature of human relationships and the lengths to which people will go for love and pleasure.