Used To You

In 'Used To You,' mxmtoon delves into the complexities of love and the vulnerability that comes with it. The song captures the essence of a relationship where one partner is willing to mold themselves to meet the needs and desires of the other. The lyrics, 'Tell me what I can say / And I can say it,' reflect a deep yearning to please and adapt, highlighting the lengths one might go to for the sake of love. This willingness to change and accommodate underscores a sense of insecurity and a desire for validation from the other person.

The chorus, 'If I could read your mind / I'd save a lot of time,' speaks to the frustration and anxiety of not knowing where one stands in the relationship. The protagonist spends a lot of time waiting for a call, symbolizing the emotional labor and anticipation that often accompany love. The line, 'I used to wanna be alone / 'Til your name was in my phone,' signifies a transformation from solitude to dependency, illustrating how love can change one's perspective and habits.

The recurring theme of saying 'I love you' more or less, and the fear that it might lose its meaning, touches on the delicate balance of expressing affection. The protagonist worries that overuse might dilute the sentiment, while underuse might lead to it being forgotten. This internal conflict highlights the struggle to maintain genuine communication and emotional connection in a relationship. mxmtoon's gentle, introspective style, combined with her relatable lyrics, makes 'Used To You' a poignant exploration of love's uncertainties and the desire for reassurance and stability in a partnership.