Koibito ga Dekitanda
My Hair Is Bad
Navigating New Love and Lingering Emotions
My Hair Is Bad's song "Koibito ga Dekitanda" delves into the complex emotions that arise when one moves on to a new relationship while still grappling with the remnants of a past love. The lyrics repeatedly mention the phrase "恋人ができたんだ" (I got a lover), signaling the protagonist's attempt to reassure themselves and perhaps their former partner about their new romantic status. This repetition underscores the internal struggle and the need for validation in their new relationship.
The song juxtaposes the joy of new love with the lingering memories of a past relationship. Lines like "君の調子はどう?" (How are you?) suggest a concern for the ex-partner's well-being, indicating that the emotional connection hasn't entirely faded. The lyrics also reflect on shared experiences and the difficulty of completely erasing the past, as seen in the lines about remembering places, items, and moments that were once significant.
A poignant aspect of the song is the acknowledgment that while romantic feelings may diminish over time, the deeper sense of love and connection often remains. The lyrics "恋は薄まってでも愛はまだ残っているよ" (Love has faded, but the affection still remains) capture this sentiment beautifully. The song ultimately portrays a bittersweet acceptance of moving forward, recognizing that new relationships are shaped by past experiences, and that true emotional closure is a gradual process.