Paro
Nej'
The Call of a Guarded Heart
The song "Paro" by Nej' is a poignant exploration of vulnerability and mistrust in a romantic relationship. The lyrics convey a dialogue between the singer and a lover who seems to be inconsistent in their attention and affection. The repeated use of 'Allô?' (Hello?) suggests a yearning for communication and connection, which is met with uncertainty and a lack of transparency from the other party. The singer reflects on past experiences where they felt neglected ('quand j'avais la tête sous l'eau') and questions whether they should be wary of this person more than others.
The phrase 'j'deviens paro, paro, paro' is a play on words, with 'paro' being an abbreviation of 'paranoïaque' in French, meaning 'paranoid'. The repetition of 'قلبي، قلبي' which means 'my heart' in Arabic, emphasizes the emotional turmoil and the protective stance the singer is taking. The song delves into the complexity of wanting to trust and build a life with someone who has the potential to hurt you. It's about the struggle to let someone in while being acutely aware of the risks involved.
Nej' also expresses a desire for a genuine partnership ('Fais de moi ton alliée') and not just superficial empathy. The song is a blend of vulnerability and strength, as the singer is willing to repair what's broken but also recognizes the danger in following a partner who may not be serious about the relationship. The mix of French and Arabic in the lyrics adds a layer of cultural depth, reflecting Nej's own background and the fusion of influences in her music.