Losing It

“Losing It” by Never Shout Never captures the raw and often chaotic emotions of young love and the inevitable heartbreak that can accompany it. The song begins by painting a picture of a transient childhood, marked by constant movement and the struggle to fit in. The protagonist describes himself as the perpetual new kid, never quite finding his place or achieving the status of the 'cool kid.' This sets the stage for his yearning for stability and connection, which he hopes to find through love.

The lyrics then shift to the protagonist's intense desire to fall in love, a common aspiration for many teenagers. However, this desire is met with a whirlwind of emotions. His heart races and his mind screams, indicating the overwhelming nature of his feelings. Despite being told that he has his whole life ahead of him to experience love, his youthful impatience and eagerness take over. This culminates in a moment of vulnerability and intimacy in the backseat of his car, where he 'loses it,' both literally and metaphorically.

The song takes a poignant turn as the protagonist reflects on the aftermath of this experience. At just sixteen, he believed his love was genuine and everlasting, only to be shattered by the realization that his partner was unfaithful. The betrayal leaves him in disbelief, questioning how someone he loved could hurt him so deeply. The repetition of his heart racing and mind screaming underscores the intensity of his heartbreak and confusion. “Losing It” poignantly captures the tumultuous journey of young love, from the initial excitement to the crushing disappointment, and the emotional growth that comes from such experiences.