Head In Her Heart

Nico Collins' song 'Head In Her Heart' delves into the poignant and often painful reality of a woman trapped in a toxic relationship. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a woman who sacrifices her own well-being and self-worth for a man who is emotionally unavailable and damaged. The phrase 'head in her heart' suggests that she is led by her emotions rather than logic, making decisions based on love and hope rather than reality. Her 'broken body' symbolizes the toll this relationship has taken on her, both physically and emotionally.

The recurring theme of her always saying sorry, despite never being wrong, highlights her submissive role in the relationship. She endures pain and discards her pride, clinging to the belief that she can see the best in her partner. This self-deception is a coping mechanism, allowing her to justify staying in a relationship that is clearly detrimental to her. The imagery of 'paint over the walls' and 'screams getting so loud' underscores the constant turmoil and conflict she faces, yet she remains hopeful that things will improve.

The song also touches on the cyclical nature of such relationships. Despite the evident toxicity, she continues to hold on to 'something sweet,' convincing herself that the lies and justifications are worth it. The line 'wide awake but comatose' poignantly captures her state of being—aware of her suffering but unable to break free. The tragic irony is that while she loses herself, her partner feels more alive, feeding off her sacrifices. This dynamic is a powerful commentary on the destructive nature of codependent relationships and the lengths to which one might go to preserve a semblance of love.