The Best You Had

Nina Nesbitt's song "The Best You Had" delves into the emotional turmoil and lingering insecurities that follow a breakup. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a person grappling with the aftermath of a relationship, questioning their ex's new partner and wondering if they still hold a special place in their ex's heart. The repeated questioning, "Does she ever feel like me?" and "How does she taste, is it sweeter than mine was?" highlights the protagonist's struggle with self-worth and the haunting comparisons that often accompany the end of a significant relationship.

The chorus, with its repetitive and almost pleading tone, underscores the protagonist's need for validation. Despite the pain and confusion, there's a desperate hope that they were the best their ex ever had. This sentiment is encapsulated in the lines, "But baby it's okay if I am still the best you had." It's a bittersweet acknowledgment that while the relationship is over, the protagonist's ego and sense of self are still tied to being remembered as the best.

Nina Nesbitt's candid lyrics also touch on the complexities of moving on. The protagonist admits to using others to fill the void left by their ex, a common but often unfulfilling coping mechanism. The line, "I've been using bodies just to get me through the night," speaks to the emptiness and temporary solace found in physical connections when emotional ones are lost. The song's raw honesty and relatable themes make it a poignant exploration of love, loss, and the lingering echoes of a past relationship.