Marry Me

No Doubt's song 'Marry Me' delves into the complex emotions and societal expectations surrounding marriage. The lyrics reflect a tug-of-war between the desire for traditional roles and the modern skepticism about lifelong commitments. The protagonist expresses a longing to be kissed and to change her name to 'Mrs.,' indicating an attraction to conventional norms. This is juxtaposed with her indecisiveness and questioning of the concept of 'forever,' highlighting the internal conflict many face when considering marriage in contemporary society.

The song also touches on the societal conditioning that pushes women towards matrimony. The line 'A creature conditioned to employ matrimony' suggests that the protagonist feels pressured by societal norms to get married, even if it means compromising her true self. The imagery of 'crumbling continuity' and 'picking up the pieces' conveys the emotional turmoil and the struggle to reconcile personal desires with societal expectations. The protagonist's fear of being 'neutered' and becoming 'prude' and 'defensive' further emphasizes the anxiety and vulnerability that come with the idea of marriage.

As the song progresses, the protagonist reflects on her past and how she has changed over time. The nostalgic yearning for a 'diamond ring' and to be 'tied down just like it used to be' suggests a longing for simpler times when roles and expectations were clearer. However, this is tempered by the realization that new love is often 'rented,' not permanent. The repeated question, 'Who will be the one to marry me?' underscores the uncertainty and the search for a partner who can reconcile these conflicting desires and fears.