Nunca Mas a Mi Lado
No Te Va Gustar
Breaking Free from the Chains of Abuse
The song 'Nunca Mas a Mi Lado' by No Te Va Gustar delves into the harrowing experience of domestic violence and the journey towards liberation and healing. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a woman who has endured physical and emotional abuse, symbolized by the line 'La golpeo, puso un fierro en su pecho' (He hit her, put a gun to her chest). This act of violence not only shatters her hope but also creates a bleak and broken future, as described in 'Invento un futuro deshecho' (Invented a broken future).
The song highlights the normalization of such brutality, referring to it as 'Tristemente aceptada, normal' (Sadly accepted, normal). This line underscores the societal issue where domestic violence is often overlooked or accepted as a norm. However, the narrative shifts towards empowerment and resilience. The chorus emphasizes that 'El valor y el amor, los dos juntos pudieron ganar' (Courage and love together could win), suggesting that strength and love can overcome the darkness of abuse. The phrase 'Chau adiós, agresor' (Goodbye, aggressor) signifies a powerful farewell to the abuser, marking the beginning of a new chapter.
The song also touches on the lingering effects of trauma, with lines like 'Hay tormentas que quedan, que están' (There are storms that remain, that are). Despite the enduring pain, the protagonist finds solace and strength in self-love and the love for life, as expressed in 'Pero puso su amor a la vida, a ella misma, al dolor' (But she put her love into life, into herself, into the pain). The song ultimately conveys a message of hope and the possibility of healing, asserting that 'El problema tiene solución' (The problem has a solution) and urging for a collective outcry against violence.