Must Stop (feat. Sarah Barthel)

ONR's song 'Must Stop (feat. Sarah Barthel)' delves into the tumultuous and often self-destructive nature of romantic relationships. The lyrics are a candid confession of the protagonist's repeated pattern of falling for people who ultimately cause them emotional pain. The song opens with a direct address to 'Stephanie,' highlighting a one-sided communication that sets the tone for the emotional disconnect and regret that permeates the song. The protagonist acknowledges the need to sever ties to break free from this cycle.

The chorus, 'I must stop falling in love with every girl who fucks me up,' is a raw and unfiltered admission of the protagonist's vulnerability and the destructive consequences of their romantic entanglements. This sentiment is mirrored in the verse about 'Timothy,' where the protagonist reflects on the superficiality and toxicity of their interactions. The repetition of the phrase 'I must stop falling in love' underscores the internal struggle and the recognition of a harmful pattern that needs to be broken.

The song also touches on the theme of personal growth and self-awareness. The reference to a recurring dream about teeth falling out, which the protagonist interprets as a sign of growing up, adds a layer of introspection. This dream symbolizes the anxiety and fear associated with change and maturity. Despite the acknowledgment of the need to stop falling for people who cause harm, the protagonist admits that the fleeting moments of connection almost make the pain worth it. This paradox highlights the complexity of human emotions and the difficulty of breaking free from self-destructive behaviors.