Handle On You

Parker McCollum's song 'Handle On You' delves deep into the emotional turmoil and coping mechanisms that follow a painful breakup. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a man grappling with the loss of a significant other, resorting to alcohol as a means to numb the pain. The opening lines set the tone, with the protagonist buying the biggest bottle of alcohol and listening to a sorrowful song, symbolizing his attempt to drown his sorrows and escape the harsh reality of his loneliness.

The recurring mention of 'Tennessee and Kentucky' serves as a metaphor for the whiskey he consumes, highlighting the cultural association of these states with high-quality bourbon. This choice of drink underscores the depth of his despair, as he turns to something strong and potent to cope with his emotional wounds. The lyrics 'I've been fighting with your memory' and 'I hate the way it hits me' reveal the internal battle he faces daily, struggling to move on from the past while being constantly reminded of his lost love.

The chorus, with its repetition of 'I finally got a handle on you,' is both ironic and poignant. While it suggests a sense of control or resolution, the context reveals that this 'handle' is merely a temporary fix through alcohol. The phrase 'black and blue' metaphorically represents the bruises on his heart and soul, inflicted by the relentless memories of his ex. McCollum's raw and honest portrayal of heartbreak and the futile attempts to manage it through drinking resonates with anyone who has experienced the pain of a breakup, making 'Handle On You' a powerful and relatable ballad.